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Godly Relationship Goals with Simone Goncalves

Join Simone Goncalves as she gives advice for having Godly Relationships in a Sinful World.

In this fallen Sinful World it can often be hard to keep true to God, especially when it comes to Relationships. More often than not neglecting God in our Relationships dooms our Relationships to failure. Thats why I'm here. To give you all the tips I have learned over the years about how to stay true to God and our loved one.

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Being Single

When you are single, take the time to BE single.

BEING SINGLE IS NOT SHAMEFUL.

Shameful is to hit on a lot of girls or to be easy to several guys just because they "are not dating."

Character and ethics are virtues to be practiced at any stage of a relationship, starting in single life, walking through the dating and extending to the marriage.

Reflect on this and do a self-assessment.

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Adultery starts, "Innocently."

FLIRTING IS CHEATING!!

Adulterous cases does not start with sleeping together; They start with inappropriate friendships. Friendship and emotional attachments with people of the opposite $ex can mean danger to your marriage. Protect your marriage by avoiding private communications and intimate conversations with people of the opposite $ex. Beware of those who give you exaggerated and suggestive compliments about your appearance. Regardless of what is happening in your marriage, do not give the devil a loophole in your marriage and end up being the victim of this trap!

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Your, "LOVE," is NOT God's LOVE!

Beware of Satan's, "LOVE."

It's amazing how the enemy uses the word... LOVE... to deceive the people into believing that everything they do in the name of LOVE is good. GOD said: "IF YOU LOVE ME KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS..." But if you tell someone to keep the commandments they take it as HATE SPEECH! YET... satan gives you deception and sin in the name of LOVE and you willingly accept it!!!

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Take an example from HUMBLE Jesus.

When mistreated by the one you LOVE, remember Jesus.

When Jesus was being badly treated, how easy it would have been for Him to reveal His deity and say, "Do you have any idea who you are talking to?" But He didn't. Most importantly, though, He humbled Himself by allowing Himself to be sacrificed for us: "He humble Himself by obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross," which was the most shameful execution imaginable. Christ's humility was not only example; Christ humility was our salvation!!!

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Your Relationship is NOT as important as God!

Nor should it be.

This world has nothing that can offer us, worldly joy is fleeting, but the joy of the Spirit is eternal, if we remain faithful to the end we will reach eternal life with God, he who remains faithful to the end will be saved! Amen!

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Mind your tongue.

Blessing and Cursing.

With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.

James 3:9-10

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Beware of EVIL Women!

Not every Woman is good for you.

Bad wives and evil women in the Bible have done great damage such as lead Solomon astray, betray Samson, and order the killing of John the Baptist.

Evil women will cause Christian men to compromise and sin. They are on the wrong path and will bring you down with them. Beware!

In every nice-sized church there are worldly women put there by Satan to trap godly men.

They might profess to know Christ, but watch out. It doesn’t matter how beautiful she is.

It doesn’t matter if you think it’s love. If a woman is persuading you to sin or is giving signs that she will not be a submissive wife, end the relationship.

It is best for a Christian man to find a true Christian woman. Proverbs 31:12 “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”

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Guard your Thoughts.

Don't let your insecurities RUIN your Relationship.

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Find a FAITHFUL Woman.

Wait for the RIGHT one.

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The ADULTEROUS Woman.

Don't accept Sin.

Many people use the story of the adulterous woman to make us omitted to sin and to preach that God accepts everyone as they are. But that's not exactly what the story shows us. The story shows us that we have a God that is so merciful that He is able to forgive even an adulterous woman, but that He is so righteous that He DOES NOT support sin and demands that we change. Let's be wise to better interpret this story, Amen?

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The two different kinds of LOVE.

Don't CONFUSE her LOVE for you!

There’s a difference between someone who has love for you, and someone who’s in love with you. When someone has love for you, they want the best for you, but they don’t necessarily want to be with you. When a person is in love with you, they want the best for you, and they help bring out the best in you. When a person’s in love with you, they do what’s right by you, not because they’re forced, but because they’re committed.

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Wait on God.

His timing is PERFECT!

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Jesus sat with SINNERS.

But He did NOT SIN!

Jesus did not sit with sinners to talk about immoral, carnal and worldly things.
- He did not sit with sinners to share pornographic videos via Bluetooth.
- He did not sit with sinners to gossip about others.
- He did not sit with sinners to talk about their sinful deeds and be proud of it.
- He did not sit with sinners to take them to the night clubs, prostitutes or to use drugs.
- He sat at the table of sinners with a single purpose "Called sinners to repentance."
- Matthew 9.9-13

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If you BURN with PASSION...

GET MARRIED!

But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Corinthians 7.9

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Speak BLESSINGS and LIFE.

NOT CURSING AND DEATH!

God tells us in His Word that the tongue has incredible power. We can use our tongue to bring blessings and life or curses and death. The saying "sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me" is simply not true. Our tongues can be the most difficult thing to control and leave us with great regret if we use our words to hurt. There is hope! The Bible tells us that with the help of the Holy Spirit we can have power and control over our tongue. Start speaking words of life and healing today!

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BE FAITHFUL!

To God AND your Wife.

God blesses who is faithful. When we are faithful in the little things of everyday life, we receive unexpected blessings.

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You DESERVE to be HAPPY!

Don't accept anything less than this!

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The Jezebel Spirit.

And FEMINISIM.

Some women break up a home because they want to be King of the home. The only way for them to be King is to remove the man. The spirit of Jezebel will tell them they can do a better job on their own.

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Don't commit FORNICATION!

SEX can wait until you are Married.

If you are NOT Married and you are having SEX, its NOT called, "Dating," its called, "FORNICATION." And its a SIN!

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OBEY your Husband

She who does NOT OBEY her Husband does NOT OBEY God

Women must obey their husbands to please God. It is IMPOSSIBLE for a wife to obey God if she does not obey her husband, because God commands every wife to obey her husband (1 Peter 3:6).

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BEWARE of Immoral Women!

ALL her ways lead to DEATH!

Men are warned about the Immoral woman in Proverbs 5:7. She is not concerned about the wife whose husband she is sleeping with or the children who are affected by the affair. No, this is what she wants, so this is what she will take. She is smooth and cunning, the Seductress operates with ease. She is sneaky, sly and skilled at achieving her goal by deception. This woman should not be trusted, and is an unsafe place for your heart. Men, guard your mind and your eyes to prevent entanglements with an immoral or adulterous woman. Do not simply follow your hormones, as they can lead you into poor decisions. Instead, ask God for wisdom, insight, and guidance to help protect you from the wrong kind of woman, and the harsh consequences that accompany your involvement with her.

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Wait for the RIGHT Man

A good, God FEARING Man

The man God has for you isn’t about all the games and child’s play. He’s focused and has a grasp on what he wants to accomplish in his life and in a relationship. Lies, unwillingness to commit, disrespect, and other negative behaviors are signs of a man who is not serious about being with you!

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Don't try to FORCE him to Marry you!!

Let him Propose in his time

If a man sees you as his wife he will definitely share his thoughts with you and make it happen.

Women you do not have to ask a man about your future together, if you do, he's not ready or maybe you're not the one. You never want to force a man into marriage. That will only lead to someone being unhappy.

In this microwave world, sometimes women forget men are the hunters and whatever they want, they will move full speed ahead to conquer it.

First and foremost, make sure you hear from God, even if the man says you're the one for him. You both should know this about one another.

"The man who finds a wife, finds a treasure and receives favor from the Lord." Proverbs 18:22 NLT

So please dear sisters, stop chasing men and let him chase you and never force him to marry you!

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BEWARE of FLIRTING!!

It isn't, "INNOCENT."

Single ladies: guard your heart from flirtatious men. Don't create a life in your head with a man that is bold enough to flirt with you but refuses to communicate his purpose for his flirting. If he simply flirts & that's it - he most likely flirts with you + every other woman he sees. Although it may feel good to get some false attention, it feels better to be pursued by a godly man with a plan that includes you in it.

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